Cancer Counseling in Culver City, CA

A cancer diagnosis changes everything. I'm Robyn Sheiniuk, LCSW, at Restorative Counseling Center in Culver City, California. I provide specialized cancer counseling for women at every stage, and for the caregivers who show up for them every day.

What Is Cancer Counseling?

Cancer counseling is a specialized form of psychotherapy designed to address the emotional, psychological, and relational impact of a cancer diagnosis and its aftermath. It is distinct from oncology treatment. It does not treat the cancer itself. What it treats is everything a cancer diagnosis does to a person's inner world: the fear, the grief, the disorientation, the loss of control, and the profound uncertainty that can settle in long after treatment ends.

Cancer counseling sessions may address:

  • Anxiety about diagnosis, treatment outcomes, and recurrence.

  • Depression and grief related to changes in health, identity, and relationships.

  • Post-traumatic stress responses triggered by scans, procedures, or medical environments.

  • Body image challenges and identity disruption following surgery or treatment.

  • Relationship strain with partners, children, and friends who are also affected.

  • The particular challenges of being a caregiver for someone living with cancer.

You do not need a current cancer diagnosis to benefit from cancer counseling. Survivors, people in long-term remission, and caregivers are all candidates for this work.

A woman thinking about going to therapy to work through her feelings after dealing with cancer

EMDR Therapy for Scanxiety and Cancer Trauma

One of the most distinctly effective tools I use in cancer counseling is EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. Originally developed to treat PTSD, EMDR has been applied extensively in medical trauma contexts, and it is particularly well suited to the kinds of fear responses that cancer creates.
What is scanxiety? Scanxiety refers to the intense anxiety many cancer patients and survivors experience before, during, and after follow-up scans. The anticipation of imaging results can trigger symptoms that resemble acute trauma responses: intrusive thoughts, sleep disruption, physical tension, and an inability to concentrate or be present. For many people, this anxiety does not diminish over time. It can actually intensify with each subsequent scan cycle.
EMDR works by targeting the traumatic memory or fear response at its neurological root. It goes beyond teaching coping strategies. It actually processes the memory so that it loses its emotional charge. In the context of cancer, EMDR can help address:
  • Scanxiety and scan-cycle dread.
  • Trauma responses related to diagnosis moments, surgical experiences, or medical procedures.
  • Intrusive memories that arise during remission.
  • Anticipatory grief and fear of recurrence.
Many women I work with have found that EMDR provides relief that talk therapy alone did not reach. Not because talk therapy is not valuable, but because some of what cancer leaves behind is stored in the body and nervous system in ways that language does not fully access.
Woman concerned with news about cancer

Support for Caregivers of Cancer Patients

A cancer diagnosis does not happen to one person. It happens to a family.
If you are a spouse, partner, parent, or adult child caring for someone with cancer, your emotional experience is real and it deserves space. Caregivers often put their own needs entirely aside, pushing through their fear, exhaustion, and grief in order to show up for their loved one. Over time, this takes a significant toll.
I offer therapy specifically for caregivers navigating the cancer experience. Not as an add-on to patient support, but as its own distinct therapeutic priority. You are allowed to be overwhelmed. You are allowed to struggle. And you deserve support that sees you as a whole person, not just a supporting role in someone else's story.
Caregiver counseling may address:
  • Anticipatory grief and fear of losing someone you love.
  • Compassion fatigue and emotional depletion.
  • Guilt about not doing enough, or about having your own needs.
  • Relationship dynamics that shift under the pressure of illness.
  • Planning for an uncertain future while trying to be present today.

Therapeutic Approaches Used in Cancer Counseling

My practice draws on three evidence-based therapeutic frameworks, selected and tailored based on what each individual brings to the work.

EMDR Therapy

A structured, research-backed method for processing traumatic memories that no longer need to hold power over the present. EMDR targets the neurological root of fear responses, going where words alone often cannot reach.

Polyvagal Theory

Understanding how the nervous system responds to threat and safety. This approach helps you recognize your own physiological patterns and expand your capacity for calm and connection, especially after the sustained stress of cancer.

Psychodynamic Therapy

A deep, insight-oriented approach exploring the relational and emotional patterns rooted in your history. This helps you understand how past experiences are shaping your response to cancer, and how to shift those patterns.

No single approach fits every person, and I do not work from a rigid protocol. What we use in your sessions will be shaped by what you need, where you are in your journey, and what has and has not worked for you before.

What to Expect When You Start

Many people wonder whether the right time to start therapy is during treatment, after treatment, or only if things feel "bad enough." There is no wrong time to begin. The right time is when you recognize that you could use support.

Sessions are available online throughout California and Florida, making it possible to access support from wherever you are.

Frequently Asked Questions About Cancer Counseling

Ready to Begin?

If you are ready to start, or just want to explore whether cancer counseling is right for you, I invite you to reach out for a free consultation. No pressure, no commitment. Just a conversation.

Restorative Counseling Center is a private practice led by Robyn Sheiniuk, LCSW, located in Culver City, CA, and providing online therapy to clients throughout California and Florida. The practice specializes in supporting women who are "high achievers" but are secretly struggling with the weight of trauma, grief, or a cancer diagnosis. Robyn utilizes evidence-based modalities, primarily Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), to help clients process stuck memories and reduce emotional intensity, allowing them to move from a state of overwhelm to one of peace and insight.

Cancer counseling is a form of psychotherapy and does not replace oncological medical care. Always consult your healthcare team regarding your medical treatment. If you are in crisis or experiencing a medical emergency, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.